In the rush of daily life, it’s easy to overlook small habits or attitudes that quietly distance us from Allah ﷻ. We might think we’re doing well: praying, fasting, giving charity, yet certain actions, words, or even thoughts could be displeasing to Allah without us realizing it. True faith calls for constant reflection and self-purification. Let’s take a gentle but honest look at seven subtle ways we might be displeasing Allah, as shared in this blog.
1. Being Ungrateful
When we forget to thank Allah for His endless blessings our health, home, family, and other blessings; we risk falling into ingratitude. Allah says in the Qur’an: “If you are grateful, I will certainly give you more. But if you are ungrateful, surely My punishment is severe.” (Qur’an 14:7) Gratitude isn’t just in words, but in how we use His blessings — with care, humility, and remembrance.
2. Lying
Even a “small” lie displeases Allah. Truthfulness is a mark of a believer. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise.” (Sahih al-Bukhari) A believer’s tongue should be pure; every word carries weight before Allah.
3. Backbiting
Speaking ill of others in their absence is a grave sin. Allah compares it to something truly horrific: “Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it.” (Qur’an 49:12) If we wouldn’t say it to someone’s face, we shouldn’t say it behind their back. Silence is often the best choice.
4. Arrogance
Thinking we’re better than others in looks, wealth, or status is a hidden disease of the heart. Allah reminds us: “Indeed, Allah does not like anyone who is self-deluding and boastful.” (Qur’an 4:36) True greatness lies in humility. The more we humble ourselves, the more Allah elevates us.
5. Being Extravagant
Wasting food, water, or any resource displeases Allah. Islam teaches moderation in all things: “And do not waste, for indeed, He does not like those who waste.” (Qur’an 7:31) Even in abundance, the Prophet ﷺ used little; he valued simplicity and gratitude.
6. Delaying Salah (Prayer)
Postponing prayers for worldly matters or laziness is a sign of neglect. Allah praises those who guard their prayers: “And those who pray, who are constant in their prayer… these are in gardens, honored.” (Qur’an 70:34–35) Pray on time — it’s not just an act of worship, but a sign of love and discipline.
7. Neglecting to Make Dua and Seek Forgiveness
When we stop turning to Allah in dua, it’s as if we’ve forgotten our need for Him. Every believer should live in a state of returning with gratitude, repentance, and hope in His mercy.
In conclusion, none of us are perfect, but recognizing our shortcomings is the first step to drawing closer to Allah. These reminders are not meant to make us feel guilty, but aware. Allah’s mercy is vast, and He loves those who repent sincerely. Let’s use this awareness to renew our hearts, correct our habits, and strive for His pleasure in every moment, because true peace comes not from perfection, but from seeking Allah’s forgiveness and living with a heart that remembers Him.
